Not to sound dramatic or anything, but having your heart broken feels a lot like someone came up behind you, put a sack over your body, dragged you to the middle of nowhere and beat you to a pulp, then left you there to figure out how to crawl out and find your way back home.
All of the most important life lessons are hard and painful.
ReplyDeleteWhen we are in a bad relationship, we are not open to better things that might come long. We're too busy with the difficulties.
Ending a bad relationship means that you are making room for something more positive.
It's human nature to stay with what's familiar even if it's painful. Because it's familiar. Even with its pain. The pain and issues become our friends, our security blanket.
It takes courage to leave the familiar, step out of the bad stuff and go after something better.
Something good is waiting for you. All you have to do is choose it.
I am with Middle-aged Diva. You are absolutely awesome and anyone who doesn't want to be with you is an effing idiot. You're going to find an amazing man who treats you the way you deserve to be treated.
ReplyDeleteIn the meantime, have fun with your friends and focus on yourself!